Mediation is a 
				process available to parties who voluntarily consent to resolve 
				a dispute with the assistance of a mediator.  The dispute or 
				conflict may occur in the workplace, between parties in a 
				contractual relationship or between members in a family. 
				Confidentiality is a critical element in mediation. The process 
				itself is confidential which mean discussions in mediation 
				cannot be introduced into evidence in arbitration or a court of 
				competent jurisdiction. Confidentiality promotes dialogue among 
				parties who otherwise would withhold information in fear of 
				reprisal from management. Confidentiality encourages parties to 
				disclose the truth restricting discussions among participants in 
				mediation. The mediator will ensure power is equally balanced 
				among participants in mediation particularly workplace issues. 
				The participants often include managers and executives in 
				addition to the employer representative with authority to enter 
				into a settlement agreement. It is critical all parties realize 
				their job title or status is not a factor in mediation. The 
				mediator will not permit one party to intimidate another in 
				mediation. At some point in the mediation disclosure will have a 
				calming affect on the parties. It will most likely occur when 
				parties realize they are in a relaxed and comfortable 
				environment where information discussed remains confidential.  
When a dispute occurs in the 
workplace or between parties in a contractual relationship and the parties begin 
to realize continued discussions exacerbates one or the other personally, that 
is a good indication to seek the assistance of a professional mediator. An 
employee is reluctant to inform management she or he has a dispute or conflict 
with another manager in fear of reprisal. Most managers and supervisors do not 
want or may not have time to respond to disputes or conflict. They often ignore 
the conflict and advise the parties to resolve the matter themselves. Some 
employers incorporate mediation as a condition of employment anticipating 
employer and employee conflict. Mediation is often the initial step in an 
employers internal employee complaint process. Parties in contractual 
relationship incorporate mediation as a provision of the contract in the event 
of a breach. In either situation parties at that point should select a mediator 
to assist them resolve their dispute. A neutral party, i.e., a professional 
mediator has the time, is in a better position than the parties to proffer 
suggestions and recommendations to resolve differences due to the levels of 
sensitivity and emotionalism parties bring to an issue(s).
Lets use the workplace as our 
example. If an employee is in a dispute with management she or he may be 
required to raise the issue with management via its Human Resources (HR) or EEO 
department as the initial step in the employers internal complaint process. In 
order to provide a broader perspective of mediation the employer in our example 
dislikes mediation and entrusts its Human Resources department to investigate 
and resolve the employees dispute. The employee perceives a conflict of 
interest in the employers complaint process specifically the HR department and 
management. So the employee decides to find a mediator. There are three critical 
elements you should look for in a professional mediator: impartiality, fairness, 
and integrity. The employee surfaces the internet for mediators and 
organizations, i.e., Association for Conflict Resolution (ACR), Southern 
California Mediation Association (SCMA) and, the Strauss Institute for Dispute 
Resolution (SIDR), etc., and personal referrals. The objective in mediation is 
settlement. If the parties have a substantial role in reaching settlement they 
are more likely to adhere to its provisions. You should consider the experience 
the mediator has with your issue. Our example is an employment issue but do not 
rule out a professional mediator has the ability to mediate other issues. You 
should consider the number of mediations the mediator held and review her or his 
resume. The search for a mediator is synonymous to searching for an attorney or 
law firm. An attorney or law firm normally has personal contacts with mediators 
who have conducted mediation with them. When searching for a mediator remember 
an attorney is trained to be adversarial when representing their client and the 
fee may be a matter of consideration. Ultimately the employee will make her 
selection. 
The employee selects a mediator 
and files her complaint with HR. Afterwards the mediator extends an invitation 
on behalf of the employee requesting the employer to participate in mediation. 
If you recall in our example the employer is anti-mediation and does not have a 
high regard for mediators. The employers attorney declines. When an employee 
files an internal complaint and subsequently invites management to participate 
in mediation management should genuinely consider the invitation as an 
opportunity to resolve the employees issue(s). The invitation represents the 
employees desire to discuss the matter and creates an opportunity the parties 
otherwise would not have in the early phase of the employers complaint process. 
The mediation would have been held in a neutral place usually the mediators 
office. The process would not have disrupted the workplace or employee 
productivity.  Attorneys often dismiss an employees invitation to mediate on 
the premise no official claim has been filed with a federal or state law 
enforcement agency or in a court of competent jurisdiction. The attorney 
dismisses an opportunity for managements early intervention and resolution of a 
dispute and a chance to avoid litigation. After the employer completes its 
internal process the employee can file her employment complaint with a federal 
or state law enforcement agency. As soon as the employee receives a Right to 
Sue Notice she can file her claim in state or federal district court. The 
employers attorneys decision has placed the parties in a protracted and costly 
litigation forum where essentially no one will win but one shall prevail. 
In the example above the 
employer overlooked a priority an endeavor to work through a suppressed economy 
in an economic recession. In that regard the employer has an obligation to its 
investors, stakeholders and, customers to consider alternative concepts with 
minimal risks such as mediation to cut costs. In a sluggish economy the first 
reaction is to cut costs. If you read our previous article you may recall we 
recommended mediation in lieu of litigation to substantially cut an employers 
costs. 
Some of you have experienced 
mediation others have not. Of those with experience their evaluation of the 
process is often skewed with unrealistic personal expectations and 
unsubstantiated comments. For example; employers challenged the proposition, the 
mediation process is less expensive than litigation even when it is soundly 
repudiated. In those situations I found that time, fees, costs and the overall 
procedure of the two processes were not comprehensively compared and evaluated 
to equitably refute the proposition. Some employers state the only way of 
reaching a resolution using mediation is through a monetary settlement. That is 
an inaccurate and grossly over stated proposition. Even if the statement was 
accurate when the cost and fees incurred in preparation for litigation is 
compared with the fees and costs of preparation for mediation it is well known 
to reach settlement litigation requires a longer period of time and is much more 
expensive than the mediation process. There is documented evidence of a high 
number of resolutions using mediation that did not require monetary settlements. 
Damages having a direct corollary with the issue(s) in dispute usually determine 
whether a monetary amount is a component in the settlement. Some employers dub 
mediation a rip off or a method employees use to extort money from their 
employers. Statistical data provided by many organizations that use mediation to 
settle disputes or conflict soundly refute such a characteristic of the 
mediation process. Some employers state they would rather fight to the end 
than pay for something it did not do. Simply stated an employer would rather 
stand on principal rather than take a practical approach and settle a matter. 
Of course that is a right of any employer to make that decision. 
An example of a stand on 
principal; an employers management consultant took over managing the employers 
employees. The consultant terminated 24 of the employers employees and hired 24 
new employees of different ethnicity to fill the same jobs. The twenty-four (24) 
employees filed an employment discrimination class action law suit with a 
federal law enforcement agency (EEOC) against the employer. Approximately four 
years later attorneys representing the employer decided it was in the employers 
best interest to settle the matter and avoid expensive litigation costs that may 
lead to more job losses. However, attorneys for the employer stated there is 
absolutely no merit to the claims and settled the matter for $500,000.00. The 
terms of the settlement require the employer to abide by a three-year consent 
decree that include policy changes such as setting hiring goals for Latino 
workers, anti-discrimination training for employees and hiring a consultant to 
monitor its progress. Keep in mind there was no discussion of attorney fees, 
four years litigation costs or time lost from a disruptive workplace or the 
negative headlines that appeared in the newspaper about the company and its 
employment issues. In our present economy or otherwise do you believe this was 
the best way to handle this matter considering the costs? Settlement should have 
been much earlier and costs would have been much less. The employer would have 
avoided litigation costs and a consent decree in a case that has no merit. 
If you are interested in 
learning more about mediation or if you have questions visit our website: or 
accept my invitation to discuss the matter over lunch at the Business Forum. 
		
		
		
		
			
				
				
				
				
				
			
		
		Thomas R. Watkins 
			is a Fellow of The Business Forum Institute and the Principal of Thomas Resolutions. He is a licensed Mediator (City 
			of Los Angeles), Certified Arbitrator, Mediator, Settlement Officer 
			(Los Angeles Superior and Municipal Courts), Certified Advanced 
			Practitioner Employment Mediator ACR (Association for Conflict 
			Resolution), Certified Mediator and Arbitrator with FINRA (Financial 
			Industry Regulatory Authority).  He holds a BS degree and MPA Degree 
			in Public Administration, from the University of California 
			Dominguez Hills. Thomas studied law at William Mitchell College of 
			Law in St. Paul, Minnesota and is a member of the Los Angeles County 
			Bar Association. He has held a number of positions with the Federal 
			Government, most notably with the United States Equal Employment 
			Opportunity Commission.  He is President of the Association for 
			Conflict Resolution LA (ACR-LA).  He is currently serving his second 
			term as President of the ACR Los Angeles Chapter, and is a former 
			member of the National Advisory Council. 
		
		
				
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